We all like sex and sometimes it’s easier to visit adult dating site to get it. Still there are situations when you need to refuse. Well, there are men with whom is easier to have sex than to explain why you don’t want to do it. But such sacrifice is no good for a woman.

Despite a common opinion a woman should not go to bed at first call of her man. Sexologists think that woman must not be afraid of saying no in some cases. Which cases are meant you can learn from this article.

So here are cases when you should say no:

1. You feel discomfort and pain

Actually sex must not be connected with pain or any discomfort at all be it a physical or a moral one. Pain can appear if you are not excited enough or have not enough natural lubrication or have some gynecological disease. In both cases it’s better to address to a specialist. But surely you must not tolerate it. Any pain is a stress for our body and a signal that something is wrong, so you must end it as soon as possible. If pain was usual for us we wouldn’t put our hand from a hot kettle or would run with a broken leg. But we don’t do it. So if sex brings you some unpleasant feelings it’s better to inform your partner about it.

2. You don’t feel enough excitement

Sometimes it happens that a woman can lose her interest in the process during sex. It happens because mechanics of female excitement is much more complicated that one can imagine. If you became less excited you must tell your partner about it and then you’ll have two variants: going back to prelude or finishing the action. The reason of such situation can be in short prelude or weak blood circulation in pelvic organs but both cases can be improved.

3. You are having a treatment course

Doctors recommend to stop having sex during gynecological disease treatment and it’s important. Statistics show that approximately 70% of women had yeast infection at least once in a life. Often relapse happens if woman doesn’t comply with medical prescriptions. During medication body needs sexual rest to use all its power against disease. So it’s better to refuse sex once than pay for medicaments twice.

4. You don’t want sex

And you don’t need a reason like a headache, being tired or bad mood. You simply don’t want sex and it must not be something awkward for both of you. You should think about yourself and your wishes and not hope that appetite comes during process.

If your man respects you and your privacy, cares about your health your refuse won’t hurt him especially if explain him that sometimes it doesn’t depend on external factors. After all there are many different variants to spend time together.

5. Your partner doesn’t want to use contraception

The risk to get HIV through unsafe sex is quite high. Quite often a partner refuses to use contraception so the only way to get rid of unpleasant consequences is to use condoms or not to have sex with partner who is careless about his and your health.