Multiorgasm: why only 40% of women feel this and how to become one of them
A multiple orgasm or a multiorgasm is a phenomena when a woman can get several orgasms during one sexual act before excitement comes down. Today we speak what multiorgams exist and how to get it.
Let’s start with theory first. The way to orgasm consists of four stages: excitement, plateau, orgasm and phase of termination.
Opposite to men women can have orgasm by orgasm as the stage of recovery is automatic and it takes more time with men than with women. Multiple orgasms are different but in general from 13% to 40% of women have ability to feel it. There are two types of them: step by step orgasm when every new orgasm takes place 2-10 minutes after the previous one and serial when orgasms happen several times in a row with several seconds interval.
This ability depends on how good a woman knows her preferences and wishes. To raise your chance to get it you can by changing your opinion towards sex. If you think that it sounds too simple for such a complicated phenomena (some women have troubles with getting one orgasm) actually it is. Our opinion about our own body and sex in general have a strong influence on our feelings during sex. Women who know more about their body, learn their sensible points, know how to get pleasure and how to get an orgasm are not shy to talk about sex with their partners and make their sexual skills better, are more orgasmic in general than women who take sex with less inspiration.
How to get a multiple orgasm
Despite the fact that multiple orgasms are not for everyone any woman can get it. The main thing here is not to be afraid to admit that the moment is lost and it’s time to stop the stimulation, and not to get sad if nothing happens at the beginning. There are several important moments which can help you to get multiple orgasms:
1. You must be excited very much
To get several orgasms during sex or masturbation the excitement must be really strong. It’s very important to concentrate on the process and to forget about anything else. To get multiple orgasms you must learn if there is something that helps to climax. Maybe there are actions that you do automatically just before the final moment. For example maybe you have some special fantasy or actions like nipple stimulation or spanking. To get the second orgasm (the third, the fourth) you should do the same things that you do when getting the first one. There is also one more thing that helps to raise sensibility of clit and other hot zones in vagina. Things that make excitement stronger one can buy in a sex-shop – they make blood circulation faster and make you have pleasant feelings. Remember that every next orgasm can be weaker than the previous one.
2. Don’t stop stimulation
The trick of multiple orgasms is not to stop stimulation after the first orgasm. But no need to try too hard from the first seconds, start with soft fondling whatever they are provided by – be it a penis, your hands or your partner’s hands, tongue or sex toys. Step by step you can make the tempo higher and fondling should be more intensive. After climax don’t stop the simulation if excitement is still at its peak than it’s quite possible that you’ll don’t have to wait for another orgasm for long.
Important moment: despite the fact that female recovery period is much shorter than male one there are different variants. So if after climax your clit becomes too sensible and further fondling brings discomfort, you don’t have to stimulate this spot.
3. First by yourself than with a partner
If you want to get multiple orgasms during sex with your partner you should tell him about it beforehand and in ideal you should learn to get multiorgasm during masturbation. It’s important because if you know how to do it alone and know what actions must be
taken for it and can explain it to your partner. But in case of failure you risk to blame your partner who is not guilty at all.
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